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My (user)name is Dani, and I will (try to) keep my gender a 'secret'! I want people to get to know me, as well as me get to know people, without the context of my or zer gender. Now that I have started on an SSRI my life has changed dramatically for the better! I am comfortable not knowing which I am. I be what I want depending on how I feel, and I'm more realistic about my ability to pass. I sometimes think of myself as a "Female-Male Man-Woman" and leave it at that.

I started college recently and have had interests and abilities in writing and nutrition, but am planning on majoring in Gender Studies. I live in the Midwest, but often I feel I don't fit in at all; juxtaposed. For example: I consider myself to be very idealistic and open-minded/ liberal; I have no interest in common American activities like watching TV, drinking, and sports; I would rather sit around and think, read, do research, plan things, or occassionally sit around and do nothing. Thus, I feel alone... I really hope to meet people like me!

I like to experiment with gender. I used to 'identify', and would often be easily defended and frustrated if I didn't pass, but I'm different now. I'm no longer interested in identifying my gender -- or having a gender at all -- and I think I may very much like it this way.

I am in my mid-twenties but many people say that I look younger; I am fairly androgynous in appearance; my identity (as in "what I feel I am" or simply "how I feel" constantly fluctuates and varies; and love being a college student; I am usually extroverted and excitable yet shy; I am always thinking.

So far I have had two legal names and I may change my name again to accurately reflect how I feel.

My life is an adventure.

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